The brain is the most powerful sexual organ. Your physical sensations are nothing compared to the pleasure that can be experienced from a creative imagination. Making love should not be an act...it should be an adventure.
From the outside, fetish play looks wild and unpredictable, but it's really not. It's a safe form of sexual play. About 15-20% of couples experiment with kinky play beginning with blindfolds or handcuffs.
If you think that fetish & BDSM play is not for you, just remember this is an excellent way to increase intimacy and build a stronger relationship.That happens because this experience lets couples experiment with trust and being vulnerable. Trust begins in the bedroom. So, keep an open mind, try something new, and add variety to your sex life. Dip your toes into the world of BDSM...you might just enjoy it!