Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Ph.D.
Come As You Are
By Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
Have you ever wondered why and how women’s sexuality works?
In this informative book, Dr. Emily Nagoski will transform your sex life and make sense of women's sexuality.
A “pink pill” for women, like Viagra, will never exist. However, as a result of all of the research that went into a "pink pill", scientists have learned more about how women’s sexuality works, and Come as You Are explains it all.
Lesson 1: Every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world. Therefore, you can NOT judge yourself based on others’ experiences. Because every women is different, and that’s normal.
Lesson 2: Sex happens in a context. All the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman’s arousal, desire, and orgasm. The most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life, is not what you do in bed or how you do it, but how you feel about it. Which means that stress, mood, trust, and body image are central to a woman’s sexual wellbeing and pleasure.
Once you understand these factors, and how to influence them, you can create a better sex life and more pleasure for yourself.