Best Sex Toys for Beginners

Sex Toys for Beginners

If you’re looking for your first luxury sex toy, there are some things to keep in mind. Not all toys are created equal, especially if you’re just starting out. Beginner toys have some unique features to help you have a good first few experiences with sex toys. 

Beginner’s toys are easy and intuitive to use. They don’t have too many buttons and the buttons are easy to use.

Beginner’s toys are also discreet with a simple shape that’s easy to hold.  

In terms of power, you want something that isn’t too strong but that has a range of vibrations so that the toy can grow with you. If you’re seeing the toys in person, like at one of our upscale, in-home toy parties or workshops, you can hold the toy against your the tip of your nose on low. It shouldn’t make you sneeze, pull back, or go numb right away. If it does, it might be too strong. 

What happens if you don’t like a toy? Give it at least 3-4 tries before you judge. Whenever you try something new, the first two times you’re focused more on the newness and sometimes awkwardness of the situation. Your body isn’t used to the sensation and your mind might wander a bit.  

It’s also important to remember that everyone is different and has a different body. What works for one, may not work for you. So there is no one “best” toy out there - there’s only the best toy for you!

To talk to a Sexual Health Educator: 
For simple product questions or quick questions, you can ask My Secret Luxury's sex expert. Please contact Kait [here]. You will get a personal response within 3 business days.